SHORTER-TERM SESSION

GIVE AND RECEIVE LOVE: THE BOYFRIEND EXPERIENCE

Taking it to the next level in our relationship requires honesty and trust. We can teach and inspire each other, making love out of a place of pure acceptance. We’ll both bring one another a balance of our skills and a genuine connection to who we are as individual men with unique personalities and desires.

You’re sexy to me, as I am to you, mostly because we give each other permission to express ourselves completely. We encourage, endorse, and legitimize one another, giving expression to what we often secretly long for. The Boyfriend Experience, when intentional and extended is a wonderful way to work from our comfort needs (freedom, companionship, indulgence, and sex) to our greater needs (meaning, self-understanding, maturity, resilience, empathy, wisdom, and love).
 

A FULFILLING FIRST TIME: A SAFE SPACE TO EXPERIENCE YOURSELF

Hand yourself over to a loving sexpert to gain the confidence to pursue other lovers – and do it – on your own.

(Many men who seek me out have never been with another man before. You can read some of my experiences welcoming them to their desires – themselves – here.)
 

EXPLORING YOUR SEXUALITY: FOR STRAIGHT MEN

Discover another side of yourself to understand your overall needs. The erotic realm reflects what our everyday lives crave. Feel the freedom only two men can share.

(An increasing number of men seeking me out identify as heterosexual. This is a cultural trend, and an encouraging one. Whether with me or someone else, I urge you to explore yourself.)
 

GAINING CONFIDENCE AND COMPETENCE: MASTER GAY SEX

From wish fulfillment to skill acquisition… Experiencing your body as desirable, learning positions with prowess, and having stamina… We’ll laugh off anxieties and uncover what really makes you feel good. Expect the session to be fun, and to be with a relatable, desirous partner. I’ll refer you to other resources afterwards so your experience extends beyond our time together.

(Many men who seek me out do so to face insecurities, learn to maintain an erection, become a dynamic top and/or bottom, and a variety of concerns and concepts. You can read my take on these undertakings throughout my fifteen-part “Skill Seekers and Fantasy Finders” series here.)
 

PLEASURING YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTNER: COUPLES COACHING

Come as a twosome for me to guide you through pleasing each other and discerning what your lover needs in order to experience satisfaction and long-term fulfillment.

Often caught up in our heads, we fail to pleasure ourselves effectively. To comprehend how to fully please another man, you both will be guided in finding what turns you on – and gets you off.

(Many men who seek me out are partnered. You can read my experiences with “The Married Man” here.)
 

WELCOME HEALING: OVERCOMING SHAME or LOSS

Come to recognize the beliefs and fears that make you feel unworthy and unlovable. Find freedom. Pain is in our body, and through our bodies we can re-experience it with pleasure, then release it.

(Many men who seek me out feel ashamed of their sexuality or perceived sexual inability, have experienced past emotional and sexual abuse, and/or have recently lost someone they loved. For these men, meeting with me is one part of a longer, wider-ranging journey. If this is your situation, I insist that you complement our time together with one or more therapies, and I’d be honored to follow up with you to create a plan of action for comprehensive healing.)
 

TOUCHING ON MYSTERY: AN EROTIC ENCOUNTER

Sometimes it’s exhausting knowing everything – and getting what we want straight away.

Whether you are “active” or “passive” in such an encounter, there is a palpable “give and receive.” We will explore the dance between surrendering and taking control. These meetings are as sensual as they are liberating.

• The Bondage Encounter
• The Kama Sutra Encounter
• The Lingam Encounter

 

FUCKING HOT: ROLE-PLAYS

None of my services are routine, but if you want to experience something niche, or simply don’t know what you want, I find that role-plays help us unshackle ourselves and find a wider sense of individual freedom in yielding to another. As I like to say: “Hold me down, and set me free.”

• Age Play – “Are you lost, little boy?”
• Father Play – “Dad, I think I might be bi.”
• Hooker Play – “How much do you ask for a night, young man – and what do I get out of it?”
• Medical Play – “Now, turn around and cough.”
• Pony Play – “Giddy up-and give your master a whinny, pony boy!”
• Religious Play – “Father, forgive me, but I have more mortal sins I must confess.”
• Seduction Play – “Man, it’s been so long since my wife sucked my dick.”
• Stripper Play – “I ask that there’s no touching while I do my dance, gentlemen. After that, all is negotiable.”
• Worship Play – “If you want, I can start by licking your feet, master.”

Bondage Play, Gender Play, Rape Play, and many more role-plays are up for exploration, and can be discussed before an engagement. While fun and freeing, role-playing can also be useful in inhabiting a mindset that helps you re-experience past emotional states and social interactions to reclaim a trauma (e.g. Age Play).

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