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Frequently Asked Questions


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Q: What is your real name?

A: Adam. “Adam” is so solid, with so much personal and parabolic significance, not to mention the only name I respond to reliably, that I figured I’d stick with it.

Q: When and where were you born? And where were you reared?

A: November, 1982 in Michigan. I spent my growing up years divided between the coniferous forests my father preferred in the northwestern part of Michigan’s lower peninsula and the deciduous woods my mother moved us to in the southwestern part. You can read more in my biography.

Q: Are you gay or bisexual?

A: Gay. While I recognize the many ways in which sexuality is uniquely experienced by each individual person, and don’t view it as automatically being boxed in on some static spectrum, I do consider my orientation to be exclusively homosexual.

Q: What are your stats?

A: I’m six feet tall (182 cm.) and weigh in at 170 pounds (78 kg.). I possess a cut, fat seven inches (17 cm.); low-hanging balls; a tight, warm bubble butt; and a deep, eager throat. I am proportionately hairy, and keep my body natural and toned with four days a week of concentrated exercise. You can read more here.

Q: What is your preferred sexual position/role?

A: It depends on the chemistry of the moment. I can be “versatile,” and comfortable going from a submissive “bottom” to a dominant “top.” In my personal life, I tend to be “actively passive” and love having my ass attended to and pleasing a throbbing, hard cock in every way possible. This makes me a knowledgeable and attentive “active.”

Q: What is your HIV/STI status?

A: “Negative” across the board. Rest assured, I have recently been tested for HIV and all sexually transmitted infections, and have used a condom correctly with proper lubricant every time I have had anal sex. I get tested every three months and am willing to share my results with you. Please note: As an educated person, I am “poz friendly.”

Q: What products do you use for bodywork?

A: Unscented Biotone Massage Cream and essential oils for various purposes upon request. I find Biotone to provide a smooth glide for you and a firm grip for me. It also absorbs naturally into the skin without staining fabric.

Q: What products do you use for escorting and sex coaching?

A: I always provide appropriate, safe, and varied products for all my services. I am well researched and experienced in this area.

Q: Do you wear clothing during a bodywork session?

A: Only if requested. I use more than my hands during a bodywork session, and work up a sweat, so for us both to be completely nude serves to enhance the experience in every way.

Q: Do you allow mutual touching between client and body-worker during your sessions?

A: I encourage it. With sensual bodywork, contact tends to occur organically.

Q: What are your sexual limitations?

A: The short answer is “anything that is unhealthy for a person emotionally or physically.” I’m pro-safety and pro-respect. Toward my partner. Toward myself.

Q: Is the privacy of your clients assured?

A: Completely. I work with clients from all walks of life and at various stages of openness with their sexuality. Confidentiality is paramount, and discretion guaranteed. If we have connected, and you see me in public, I welcome it if you approach me regardless of who I am with, but I will not acknowledge you first, out of respect.

Q: Do you offer discounts to younger or “more attractive” men?

A: No. All men are appealing in their own way. I encourage diversity. I am highly skilled and excel at what I do, and the service I offer is not dependent on a client’s perceived status in life or allure, and-for me-it supersedes my own. My looks might be a factor in why you’re hiring me, but it’s my ability and passion that make it an elevated experience. To give one man a discount for a superficial reason is to deem him more worthy, and that is not who I am or what I am about.

Q: Do you ever provide discounts to anyone?

A: Yes, I do. I run specials for first-time clients through Masseurfinder and MassageM4M.

Q: Do you mind connecting with someone who is overweight?

A: No, not in the least. I am passionate about the energy behind what I do; hence, I do not have a preference as to the appearance of my clients other than an appreciation for their diversity. All are welcomed and treated with love and respect. For bodywork, I enjoy using my fingers and the heels of my hands more nimbly with my sinuous clients, and using the expanse of my arm on my larger-sized clients.

Q: What is your motive behind being a body-worker, escort, and sex coach? Do you really enjoy this line of work?

A: Truth be boldly told: I cannot imagine doing anything else at this point in my life, and I can feel it expanding into something more ubiquitous. I am motivated by a deep desire to connect meaningfully with men who love men in a way that specifically meets their needs during our time together while increasing the quality of their lives well after.

I’m doing this incredibly important work out of a place of passion, not out of desperation. I’m not taking advantage of you, nor you me. It’s an act of equality as well as one of personal betterment.

In short, this field of expertise is what I am most inspired by and talented at, as well as what allows me to make my highest contribution in the world during this particular era in my life. I’ve signed myself up for it wholeheartedly!

Q: Do you use drugs?

A: No. I drink modestly, am a non-smoker, and a daily caffeine-consumer. I don’t use anything that would jeopardize my health or seriously impair my judgment.

Q: What forms of payment do you accept?

A: I accept cash, credit card, PayPal, and Bitcoin payments. On rare occasions I “barter and trade” with clients I already have a relationship with (my expertise in exchange for free miles, services, etc.).

Q: Is what you do safe?

A: Yes. Bodywork, escorting, and sex coaching is legal in the United States, for one thing. Per the other concern, I connect solely with men who respect themselves before I get the opportunity to. This guarantees their respect toward not only me, but also the experience we create together.

Q: Isn’t having an Amazon Wish List and accepting PayPal donations without providing a service greedy?

A: No. Almost every item on the Wish List will be re-gifted (unless I’m instructed not to). PayPal donations are used to buy time so I can blog and reach out to those who might not necessarily have the luxury of affording my services for geographic or economic reasons. The Amazon Wish List and PayPal donation options are exercises in giving to others. Watch out, Kickstarter!


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